“Have patience with the shortcomings of the woman. Do not argue about every little thing she does. Overlook the faults that do not affect the marriage.”
Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (Hafidhahullaahu Ta’aala)
Ibnul Jawzee (rahimahullaah) said: Sayyaar (rahimahullaah) reported from Riyaah (rahimahullaah) who said: A woman was mentioned to me, so I married her. Whenever she finished praying Ishaa, she would perfume herself, adorn herself with incense and wear her (fine)clothes; then she would approach me and say: "Do you have a need?” If I said yes, she would stay with me; and if I said no, she would take off her (fine)clothes and stand up for (prayer) till the morning. Riyaah said: "By Allaah,she really delighted me." [Sifatus Safwah: page: 116] |
“Giving precedence to others over yourself in those things which are obligatory is not allowed. For example, if a person only has enough water for himself with which to perform ablution and there is another person with him who needs water, he is not to give the water to the other person, the other person should do tayammum. Because this is giving precedence to others over yourself in those things which are obligatory, and giving such precedence to others over yourself is haraam.’
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THE PRINCIPLE: “NOT ALL THAT IS KNOWN SHOULD BE SAID; NOT ALL THAT IS SAID SHOULD BE SPREAD.” lmaam al-Bukhari, rahimahullah, said: ‘Chapter: Selecting some people to impart knowledge to, fearing that others will not understand it.” [stated by al Bukhari in his saheeh [1/300] Anas bin Maalik radiallahu ‘anhu relates: Once Mu’aadh was riding along with Allaah’s Messenger sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam when he said to him: ‘O Mu’aadh ibn Jabal!’ Mu’aadh replied: At your service 0 Messenger of Allaah. So he said: ‘O Mu’aadh’ To which Mu’aadh replied: At Your service 0 Messenger of Allaah, saying this three times. So the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said: ‘There is no one who testifies that none has the right to be worshippcd except Allaah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allaah - truthfully from his heart - except that Allaah will forbid the Fire to him.” Mu’aadh said: 0 Messenger of Allaah, shall I not inform the people and give them the glad tidings? So he said: ‘No! For they will then depend solely upon it.’ So Mu’aadh related this at the time of his death, fearing that he would be sinful [if be did not convey this knowledge]. [related by al Bukhari in his saheeh [#28] Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-’Uthaymeen said about the above hadeeth: “The permissibility of restricting knowledge to some people over others, whereby if some people were to be informed of certain parts of knowledge, it would cause fitnah (trial and discord). Read more of this post |
THE PRINCIPLE: “NOT ALL THAT IS KNOWN SHOULD BE SAID; NOT ALL THAT IS SAID SHOULD BE SPREAD.” lmaam al-Bukhari, rahimahullah, said: ‘Chapter: Selecting some people to impart knowledge to, fearing that others will not understand it.” [stated by al Bukhari in his saheeh [1/300] Anas bin Maalik radiallahu ‘anhu relates: Once Mu’aadh was riding along with Allaah’s Messenger sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam when he said to him: ‘O Mu’aadh ibn Jabal!’ Mu’aadh replied: At your service 0 Messenger of Allaah. So he said: ‘O Mu’aadh’ To which Mu’aadh replied: At Your service 0 Messenger of Allaah, saying this three times. So the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said: ‘There is no one who testifies that none has the right to be worshippcd except Allaah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allaah - truthfully from his heart - except that Allaah will forbid the Fire to him.” Mu’aadh said: 0 Messenger of Allaah, shall I not inform the people and give them the glad tidings? So he said: ‘No! For they will then depend solely upon it.’ So Mu’aadh related this at the time of his death, fearing that he would be sinful [if be did not convey this knowledge]. [related by al Bukhari in his saheeh [#28] Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-’Uthaymeen said about the above hadeeth: “The permissibility of restricting knowledge to some people over others, whereby if some people were to be informed of certain parts of knowledge, it would cause fitnah (trial and discord). Read more of this post |
توكلت في رزقي على الله خالقي *** و أيقنت أن الله لا شك رازقي |
Posted: 26 Mar 2012 10:07 PM PDT
* *In the Name of Allaah, the Extremely Merciful, the Bestower of Mercy… Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan:…This is what is obligatory for the du`aat (callers) to precede upon in their call, that they should focus upon warning against shirk and calling to tawheed before everything, otherwise their call will not be upon the manhaj(methodology) of the Messenger (sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam). Allaah sent the Messenger (sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam) with warning against shirk and calling to tawheed, so it is essential to lay this foundation down first of all. After that, the person can direct his attention to the rest of the matters, since matters will not be correct and sound except with the presence of tawheed. If all of the people were to abandon zinaa (fornication), intoxicants, stealing, and they took on every virtuous quality from deeds and behavior, but did not abandon shirk, there would be no benefit in these matters and it will not benefit them. Whereas, if the people were to remain free of shirk, but had major sins less than shirk, then there is hope for such a person that Allaah will either forgive him or punish him in accordance with the level of his sins. But his final destination will be to Paradise because he is a person of tawheed. Tawheed is the fundamental basis and foundation. There is no salvation except with the presence oftawheed firstly. Therefore, it is obligatory to concentrate and always give attention to it and to call the people to it and to teach it to the people and to explain it to them, what is the meaning of tawheed and what is the meaning ofshirk. The Muslim must be aware of this matter and attain certainty concerning it. He should check himself so that he does not fall into anything from shirk or infringe tawheed. This matter is essential and the da`wah must precede upon this basis.(1) _____________________________ (1) Sharh Usool-ith-Thalaathah, Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan. Translated by Aboo Talhah Dawud Burbank -rahimahullaah. |
'Abdullâh bin 'amr: If you are not crying, then pretend to cry. For by the One in whose hand my soul lies, if one of you knew, he would have shouted until his voice breaks, and he would have prayed until his back breaks.(at-Tazkiyah, p.124) |
When Jihaad becomes obligatory, by Shaikh al-'Uthaimeen (rahimahullaah)
Source: Tape Explanation of Riyad-us-Saliheen of Shaikh al-'Uthaimeen, Part 6.
Student Mustafa George (hafidhahullaah) relayed from Shaikh Muhammad ibn Salih al-'Uthaimeen (rahimahullaah) in the latter's sharh of Riyad-us-Saliheen:When Jihaad becomes obligatory:
- When the Khalifa (Muslim ruler) enjoins it upon you
- When the kufaar surround you
- When you are already on the battlefield [you (are not allowed) turn your back unless you do it to gain a better position]
- If he is needed, and he is the only one who knows how to use a particular weapon - even if he is not commanded by the Imam
In these four cases, Jihaad becomes Fard 'Ayn, wajib (obligatory) upon an individual. In other than these four cases, it becomes Fard Kifaayah.So this is based upon knowledge and not emotion. There are two requirements for any deed to be accepted [Ikhlaas and its legislation (following the Sunnah)], and knowledge is necessary to know it is legislated.[Mustafa George said: If a person says,'Ya ikhwaan, such and such has taken place in such and such country. Let's go and fight.' Say to him, 'akhee, have you studied the affair of Jihaad? What are the principles of Jihaad? When is Jihaad obligatory upon you? Is it Fard'Ayn or Kifayyah? Have the conditions been met? Who is the Imam or scholar who has ordered it?' These are certain matters that should be asked of these individuals.]It is obligatory during the trials and tribulations we live in today that we remind the general laymen that the call to fighting for the purpose of one's land, this is a call that is not appropriate. And the people should become learned with regards to one's religion. And we should inform the people that we fight for our Religion before anything. When is it permissible to fight for his land?When his land is an Islaamic land, and the Islaam which is present in that land needs to be protected. We have to fight with this intention - the intention of protecting Islaam which is in the land. Not the land itself! Not the land itself, but because of the Islaam which is present in the land.Verily, a person who fights for Nationalism, or for his people, this is done by the Muslim or Kufaar. Fighting for the land, or your nationality, or your race is done by Muslim and kufaar, but this does not benefit a person to fight for your land, nationality or race. It does not benefit him on the Day of Judgement. And a person who is killed in fighting for his land or his nationality, or his race, he is not considered a martyr (shaheed).Because the Messenger of Allaah (salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) was asked about a man who fights for enthusiasm, one who fights for courage, and one who fights to show off, which of these is fighting in the cause of Allaah, and he (salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said: The one who fights so that Allaah's Word becomes superior is striving in the cause of Allaah. [Agreed upon]*
If you fight for your land, then you and the kaafir are the same, but fighting for the Religion of Allaah - the Word of Allaah - which is being practiced and established in your land, then in this case it is considered for Allaah 'Azza wa Jall.And there is also another hadeeth that is considered in Bukhaaree and Muslim and others. The Prophet (salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said: There is not a person who is wounded in the sake of Allaah, and verily Allaah knows who is wounded for His sake, except that he will come on the Day of Judgement with his wounds and they will be flowing with blood, the color will be the color of blood and the smell will be the smell of misk.Pay close attention how the Prophet (salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) gave a condition that the person is wounded for the sake of Allaah. So the Prophet (salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) in this hadeeth emphasized twice the importance of it being for the sake of Allaah. So it is wajib upon the students of knowledge to teach the people that fighting for your land is not the correct form of fighting.And then the student added the hadeeth of the man who killed himself while fighting - that the Prophet (salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) did not describe him as a shaheed. The 'Ulemma said: You should only call a shaheed he whom the Prophet called a shaheed, because you do not know the intention of the person. And likewise, the one who dies of a stomach ailment, or drowns, or dies in the fire or the building falls on him, then we say, 'that's the death of a shaheed, and we hope the person is a shaheed,' but you cannot say the person is a shaheed.Source: Tape Explanation of Riyad-us-Saliheen of Shaikh al-'Uthaimeen, Part 6.* In the footnote under this hadeeth in Buloogh al-Maraam [Book of Jihaad] is the following: It means that a battle for the sake of valour, integrity, retaliation, pillage, hypocrisy and an insatiable lust for land-grabbing, etc... are not the Islaamic wars even though they may be fought by the Muslim warriors. Islaamic war is the one which is fought mainly for the purpose and intention of propagating Islaam in the earnest. During the course of events, if such a war also yields some secondary benefits, there is no harm in that, and the warriors are allowed to be profited by them.